I miss you.

August 3, 2025

Note: The Exhale Pro-Voice After-Abortion Stories collection features people’s stories of their experiences and emotions, exactly as they have written them in. We do not edit these stories at all, and the content that follows this message is exactly as we received it. We know that people’s experiences are complex, and these stories reflect the many emotions they may be feeling after their abortions. From relief to grief, and everything in between, and all at the same time, we’re here for you.

I miss you. I’m sorry I didn’t realize how much I loved you before I made my decision. I still believe in a woman’s right to choose, and I take full responsibility for my choice—but I will miss you forever.

Money was tight. My village was small.

My heart aches knowing I’ll never meet you, that your dad will never hold you, never see his likeness in your face. Your brother would have been your role model and protector. You would have been so loved.

I was afraid we couldn’t give you everything you deserved. I let fear keep me from meeting you. But know this: I love you. I’m sorry. I know you chose us, and I didn’t choose you—and that truth will stay with me always.

If I’d had more support, I would have chosen you a million times over. You deserve every hug, every kiss, every bit of goodness I couldn’t give. Thank you for trying to be part of our lives. You will always be my love. I love you. I’m sorry. I miss you.

Submitted by: Katherine

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