Note: The Exhale Pro-Voice After-Abortion Stories collection features people’s stories of their experiences and emotions, exactly as they have written them in. We do not edit these stories at all, and the content that follows this message is exactly as we received it. We know that people’s experiences are complex, and these stories reflect the many emotions they may be feeling after their abortions. From relief to grief, and everything in between, and all at the same time, we’re here for you.
Submitted by: Violet
It’s been over a year since my abortion. I’ve gone through every single emotion — grief, guilt, relief, happiness, sadness, etc.
But right now I’m feeling defeated. I feel like I lost so much. I lost the love of my life, who I could’ve had this child with. I lost myself. I lost the ability to go every day without thinking about it. I lost my happiness. I don’t know what to do.
I know the decision I made was right at the time, but I can’t help but wonder if I would be happier if I went a different route. I have no one to talk to about this. I feel So alone. I just want someone to tell me it’s going to be ok. I feel so lost but at the same time so relieved.
I need help. I don’t want to lose myself. I just want someone to talk to. I pray that anyone going through my situation will be ok one day too. We are strong. Much love to all of you. I just needed to vent my sadness.
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